This morning something funny happened, I just had to share it with you guys.
Early morning breakfast conversation:
Me: “Yeah, I don’t ever want to have kids”.
Aunt: “WHAT?! But why not?”
Me: “Because I don’t want to”.
Aunt: “But there is nothing wrong with your eggs! You can have children! At least have 1 and be done with it”.
Me: “I do not WANT to have kids!!!!!!”
Aunt: “But how is that possible?!”
Me: “Sigh, we have this conversation at least 4 times a year and every time it’s like your brain can’t accept what I am saying, or rather, won’t accept what I am saying”.
Aunt: “You are a woman! You have to have kids!!!”
Me: “What law states that I have to have kids because I am a woman??”
Aunt: “It is just the way it is!!! You are a woman and that is your job and purpose in life! To have children!!”
My 11 year old sister (that I take care of full time!!): “So I won’t be an aunt?”
Me: “Sure you will! To my 30 dogs!”
Aunt: “M, she is going to have children, even if I have to force her!!”
Me: “Oh, so you’re going to force me ah? I’d like to see you try, last time I checked it was still MY life and MY womb”.
Aunt: “God and I will make you! You just wait and see”.
Me: “Here, have some more bacon. It’s really healthy. Have loads!”
This morning I was apparently transported back to the 1950’s!! Lol. The nerve of some people.
Yes, I am indeed a woman. No, I am not obligated to have children.
Yes, it is and always will be MY choice.
No, it will never be anyone’s else’s choice.
Yes, I like children.
No, I do not wish to have any of my own.
Happiness (in life) does not depend on whether or not I pass a kid through my lady parts.
My aunt is not the first to go off on me like that because of my decision not to have kids. People like her need to mind their own business and accept that it’s my decision and not theirs.
My all time favorite has always been “Oh you don’t know what you are talking about. You’re still young, you will change your mind”. That shit cracks me up!!
I am 25 years old, I think that I am capable of making my own decisions. I made up my mind about not having kids when I was in my teens for fucks sake.
#TeamNoKids #life #MyBodyMyChoice #LeaveMyWombAlone